Sunday, June 22, 2014

Tweetfest, Part I - Make a Band Famous


The events I’ve outlined in the following blog post are true (sort of).  MAYBE I’ve added some embellishments, maybe some humor. Read and see which is which. YOU be the judge.
Around the middle of May I got a phone call from my son Tony, who (as you know) now lives in Nashville. He had some news for me. “I entered a contest, and out of 2,700-plus entries, I placed in the top 60.”
“What? You’re kidding! Who, what, where, when, why?” Yes, my traditional game of 20 questions kicked in immediately.
“Well, it’s a contest for VH1 and Republic Records – Make a Band Famous. The grand prize is a record deal with Republic. I submitted a 15-second video of me playing “America to Go” filmed at Eddie’s Attic in Atlanta. I was chosen from my video…”
“Wow, that is just great! So what happens next?”
“Well, (long pause here) they want people to vote… on Twitter…”
(Cue the crickets.) Dead silence echoed from my end of the phone as I contemplated the meaning of his last sentence. Finally I said, “But who tweets? I mean nobody in the family does – Grampa, Aunt C… (I listed approximately eighteen more people here…)
“Yeah, I don’t know, but those are the rules. I mean Molly tweets for the Lucky Fin Project, and Lesleigh and I tweet…” Then he reminded me, “Mom, I helped you set up a Twitter account like five years ago!” (Of course that was true – not that I’d used Twitter much to that point, but still…)
So I said, “Okay, well we’ll see what happens I guess…” We continued to talk of other things, but my mind kept drifting back to that silly dormant Twitter account. I silently vowed to figure out exactly how to tweet now that a record deal hung in my son’s balance.
I went to the “VH-1 Make a Band Famous” website and saw the box with Tony’s picture. I watched the 15-second video. Sigh… how I do love my kids… Hesitantly, I pressed the word “Vote” under his hashtag #tonymemmel name. I thought that perhaps I could dodge the system - that I’d be able to vote in this simple manner rather than via Twitter. Maybe they’d see I was his mom and I wouldn’t require the whole “Twitter approach.” But nope - no cigar! A message popped up prompting me that I needed my Twitter password and account info. DRATS! Rats are bad, but in my opinion, Drats are much worse!
Later that day I slowly circled my computer, and after staring at it for some time, finally sat down. I cracked my knuckles and wiggled my fingers; cocked my neck first left and then right to loosen my stiff upper back and shoulder muscles. As a warm-up, I checked my ‘laptop usuals:’ two e-mail accounts, Facebook of course, my blog stats, Tony’s Youtube hits, Linkedin, and my book’s Amazon numbers. Realizing it was time and that I’d stalled long enough, I slowly typed in “T W I …” and my very intelligent laptop prompted me with “Twitter.” Okay, yes, fine, I want Twitter! I pressed enter. I thought back to 2009, when Tony first started the account with me. I took a stab at my Account name and password based on what was happening back then. I got IN! Triumph overtook me. I did it, I did it, now I can vote. So the first thing I did was click back to the #MABF website and pressed vote. This time I had success. I voted! I voted! I contributed to the cause!
I continued down this menial tweet path for a few days. I learned that I needed to change a word or two each time I voted so that the system recognized I wasn’t a robot. I began to feel creative: “I just voted, WE just voted, Todd just voted, Millie (our cat) just voted, Lillie (our other cat) just voted…” and so on. Though I was the only one home, I glanced over my shoulder as if saying are you seeing this? Can you see that I’m tweetin’ up a storm over here???
Next, to mix things up, Tony informed me that he and the gang were hosting actual Twitter conversations. He said I didn’t have to 'just' vote on the MABF site, but could join the group. I begged off at first, but in the end I joined just to learn the routine through re-tweets.  
 I’m not going to lie. Twitter moves fast, my friends. It was not for amateurs, let me tell you. Between the new comments, the re-tweets, the favorites and the replies, my head was spinning. But before I knew it I was getting even more creative, adding pictures from my brand new I-Phone, using phrases such as, “This bird is tweeting for #tonymemmel #mabf,” and “This owl wants to know whoooo you’re voting for #tonymemmel #mabf.” Todd and I went boating over Memorial Day weekend, so I used this, “Can you tweet while you float? Yes, I’m tweeting on my boat #tonymemmel #mabf.” The phrases were endless. I tweeted about the baby robins in our yard who were learning to fly from their nest. I tweeted about Tony’s albums, his song lyrics, and what they meant. I tweeted about my book, why I wrote it, who I wrote it for… You name it, baby I tweeted it (well, maybe not EVERY thing, but lots of things… )
As the days and weeks (3 ½ to be precise) picked up steam, so many people were on board with our cause. I met people on Twitter from all over the country because when Tony announced the contest to his Facebook and Twitter followers, telling them he needed their help, they heard his tweeting call and flocked to their computers to help. People he’d met through his work with the Lucky Fin Project, old friends from high school, college, our home church, symphonies and choirs, Lesleigh’s parents and her nurse friends. People tweeted from as far northwest as Washington state, and as far southeast as Florida. And did I mention most points in between? I’m afraid to list all of the states because I don’t want to leave one out. Suffice to say that folks over the span of 3,000 American miles tweeted for #tonymemmel #mabf. No lie!
Every day I thought, we’re probably okay with tweets now. I can probably stop. I can probably stop any time I want. But then I’d think why? Who’d want to miss out on all of the action? As it turned out, not me!
Stay tuned for Part II - The #MABF Competition
Katie Kolberg Memmel is the author of "Five Fingers, Ten Toes - A Mother's Story of Raising a Child Born with a Limb Difference." For more information, visit her website at www.katiekolbergmemmel.com 

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Megan (and Clara) are Graduating!


Okay, so, how’s everybody doing today? Memorial Day is already way behind us, and summer is here full-force - at least it will be as soon as our city’s school district is done with school on June 12. Our winter was so harsh that the kids have to go a few days longer than usual. Isn’t it funny how it always seems great in January to miss a day of school, but such a drag in June???  
Speaking of being “done with school,” we have some great news! At the end of May our daughter, Megan, finished her last days of college. She is graduating from Walden University (with honors!) with her Bachelor’s Degree in Human Resources. Todd and I are both so happy for her and very proud… Megan did college a bit differently than some. But here we are, and what a story it is to tell!
Back when Meg was a senior in high school (2007), she had her heart set on going away to a great big university. UW-Madison, which is only about 70 miles west of our home, was by far her top choice. She also applied to UW-Milwaukee (too close to home and hosted too many local kids from high school) and the University of Minnesota-Twin Cities (50,000 plus, a small city in and of itself). Though her senior class ranking was in the top 20% of her class, she had extra-curricular activities and a ‘decent’ ACT score, she did not get accepted into Madison. (disappointment) (sigh) 
She decided to head west and go to Minnesota, which is about 250 miles from our home. Thankfully she was assigned a great roommate with whom she bonded and connected. But the plan didn’t work out quite as she thought it would. For a number of reasons, (our family had so many things happen that year) she decided to finish out her freshman year there, but then come back home to live. 
During the middle of her Minnesota year, one Sunday afternoon Todd and I got a long-distance phone call from our (now) son-in-law, Joe. He asked that we each get on an extension, then told us he’d like to ask Megan to marry him. He asked for our blessing. Yes, they were young, and yes there was a lot to consider; but they’d known each other quite a while, and seemed very compatible and happy. Long story short, we said “Yes” and wished him well… 
The two got engaged in January of 2008, and she finished up her year at Minnesota. Ultimately, she achieved her Associate’s degree here in Waukesha, Wis. in 2009. It was the craziest timeline of events… Listen to this…
Saturday, December 12 – Joe graduates from college at MI Tech (in the UP). We all attend.
Wednesday, December 16 – Megan graduates from college here in town. We all attend. ;)
Friday, December 18 – Joe and Megan’s Rehearsal Dinner at our church. We all attend.
Saturday, December 19 – Joe and Megan’s wedding at our church. We all attend.
Sunday, December 20 – Joe and Megan’s gift opening at our house. We all attend.
“The Holidays” We all attend.

The prettiest bride I've ever seen!
During New Year’s the two left for their honeymoon and were gone for a week. We did not attend. ;) The day after they got back, Joe had a job interview lined up with Kimberly Clark. He flew to Philadelphia.  Later that day I got a text message… “I got the job.” (Tears) (happy and …)
In the timeframe of about six weeks, these two had gone through most of life’s major events. College graduations, marriage, honeymoon, new job, and finally, moving across the country away from absolutely everyone they knew. Joe accepted the job in Pennsylvania, they packed up their belongings and headed east. 
If you know me at all, you know how important my family is to me, and you know how much I miss these two. But Todd and I also agree that everyone needs to go where the work is. In that terrible 2010 job market, Joe was offered a great job in his field (Electrical Engineer) and they needed to go. I was happy they were married and could now live and figure out life, together. We missed them like crazy, but knew they'd be okay!
Megan has worked at a number of jobs – retail, banking, a vet clinic. But when the kids got transferred up to New Milford, Connecticut, and it looked like they’d be there a while, she got a job, but also decided to do what it took to finish her Bachelor’s Degree. She enrolled with Walden, and began her schooling – one intensive six-week class at a time - over and over and over. On top of all of that they purchased their first home. As you can see, she’s one busy woman - homeowner, wife, working full time, college classes… PLUS she and Joe decided to raise the “Guiding Eyes” dog, Clara. Remember her? To refresh your memory, here’s the link to Clara’s story: http://katiekolbergmemmel.blogspot.com/2013/12/thanksgiving-part-three-clara.html
 
Joe and Megan (tearfully) parted with Clara last December (2013) and she went to see where her lofty special life might lead her. It was determined that Clara would not be working with “Guiding Eyes” program after all.” Instead, since she has quite a nose on her, she will be working/sniffing with the ATF (Alcohol, Tobacco and Firearms).  Megan was just notified of Clara’s graduation date with ATF, and plans to attend the event in Virginia later this summer (2014). 
So… After two-and-a-half years of her own schooling, after counting down class after class, finally getting notice that she was finishing, taking that last and final exam… Megan’s graduating with her degree in Human Resources – and already found a brand new job to boot! AND the same week Meg was finishing, she was notified of Clara’s graduation date too. I mention this in the same paragraph and practically in the same breath because the dog and its placement is almost as important to her as her own situation – True! Joe and Megan fostered the dog from the age of ten weeks to 18 months. They have so much training, work, care, love and emotion invested in Clara. They want her to do what she was born to do – Help Others!  She may even save lives! Go Clara! 
I’ve said this before and will probably say it again… but there are so many people in this world doing extraordinary things. They work so hard to make a better life – not just for themselves – but for others. 
And as for Todd and me, we could not be more proud of all these events. Way to go, Megan! Congratulations! We can’t wait to see what’s next…

Katie Kolberg Memmel is the author of "Five Fingers, Ten Toes - A Mother's Story of Raising a Child Born with a Limb Difference." For more information, visit her website www.katiekolbergmemmel.com